So I have consulted a few people and I have come to the conclusion that I need to write down all my thoughts and feelings about my situation, my perspective and quite frankly the reality of my mom’s health in a letter to her. I realize to some this may seem like a cop-out but it’s the only way I will get her to stop and consider all sides of the situation, to consider all her options, for her to reflect upon what is going to make both of us happy.
I am in the process of writing and I feel like it is a manifesto for our future relationship, should it survive this battle.